The secret of success is learning how to use pain and pleasure instead of having pain and pleasure use you. If you do that, you’re in control of your life. If you don’t, life controls you.
- Anthony Robbins -
Each and everyone of us has full control over our lives. It all rests upon our own will, it is all in our own power.
There are no obstacles or difficulties that can stop us from doing what we want
to do, or fulfilling our dreams, but there are also no entitlemens. Live a good life, do good deeds, think positive and good things will happen to you - everyone can do that.
There are three behaviours that we use to control our lives:
- what we do
- what we think
- and what we feel
Sometimes we feel miserable as a result of these behaviours. But we always have some control over what we do. Accepting misery is a choice, and we choose much of our misery. Here are 4 reasons why we choose misery :
- To keep angering under control
- To get others to help us out
- To excuse our unwillingness to do something more effective
- To gain powerful control
How we feel is not controlled by others or events, unless we choose to allow it to. Instead of allowing them to control us, choose to make better choices that will result in more control over your life.
Taking control of our lives is spending our energy attacking the problem rather than blaming it.
Our behavior is our attempt to reduce the difference between what we want (our picture in our heads) and what we have (the way we see situations in the world).
Nothing we do is caused by what happens outside of us. If we believe that what we do is caused by forces outside of us, we are acting like dead machines, not living people.
Try to use these things in order to take control over your life and make better choices because no one else can do it for you, and you’ll be on your way to a much better future!
it is awsum:)